Most thoughts are not your own

The law of attraction, esoteric magic, quantum theory and studies of the mind accept that we create our reality based on our thoughts. So why is it that we can think the perfect reality in our minds, focus on our goals, positive outcomes and what we want all day and night, and yet STILL manifest […]

The Dangers of Cancel Culture

Recently, the topic of cancel culture has come up during conversations with coaches, thought leaders and visionary leaders. They’re normally confident about expressing their opinions and having frank dialogues but recently have found themselves not speaking out, biting their tongue. Why? They don’t want to be “cancelled”. Cancelling is where an individual is deemed to […]

Our Conscious Tipping Point

I’m sure you’ll agree that someone would have to be in deep denial or be living under a rock to fail to notice that the world is in a place of rapid and chaotic change. This can only mean one thing. That we are at the tipping point of change. It’s part of a cycle […]

Why you can’t just let it go

We’re encouraged to release painful emotions, to “let it go”. There are so many emotional healing modalities that are some version of this. • The “release meditation” • The affirmations • The energy clearing • And so on… But why doesn’t this work? Why is it so hard to just “let it go”? What’s missing? […]

Let’s celebrate YOU as a Spiritual Leader

To all the spiritual people who are seeing what’s going on in the world, but are not turning away because it lowers your vibe… I celebrate you! You are a spiritual leader! You are brave and wonderful! Because what the world needs now is people who are BOTH spiritual AND powerful. We’ve seen what a […]

Afraid to publish and promote my book

I recently published the second edition of my book “I Loved A Peadophile”, where I share how I was groomed, trafficked and held as a virtual house prisoner for 5 years in my teens. It took me a long time to acknowledge the depths of what I’d experienced. It took even longer for me to […]

Spiritual paradoxes that make no sense

In the 90s and 00s there was a wave of new age. New belief. New healing paradigms.   We were allowed and encouraged to experience spirit in our own way. To be free of the shackles of dogma of most organized religions. To be US. I can be me. You can be you. We can be […]

A spiritual principle that is used to abuse

I remember the very day that I first learnt about the idea that we are the creators of our universe. I was stunned. Sometimes called the law of attraction, and often merged with perception is projection, this idea suggests that I am the creator of everything in my experience. That everything I perceive as “out-there” […]

The ‘One Good Thing’ movement

Have you noticed that a lot of personal development has focused on getting stuff? “Get this THEN be Happy”. Add to this the idea that you start with the “fake it till you make it” idea. Or pretend you’re happy till you get the thing. So that you can get the thing. Think happy thoughts […]

Freethinkers create the world

Do you ever pause to consider that everything that has ever been invented, even if it’s now in common use and an accepted standard for basic life, was once considered new, radical and unthinkable? The obvious ones are smartphones, the car (horseless carriage), the Internet, the PC, many medications and drugs, which are now considered […]