I’m always fascinated in how leaders emerge.
People say is they are waiting for conscious leaders to show up. Or they talk about how terrible our current leaders are. They’re corrupt, they lie, they stumble, they change their minds, they change their message, they do all the wrong things.
I’ve worked with and coached leaders, politicians, business leaders and spiritual leaders, and one thing that’s clear is that they are human!
There are leaders who have a deep yearning and passion to make the world a better place. They don’t sit around waiting for someone to come along and change things. They don’t criticise the leadership we have.
Instead, they get to work and make the change themselves.
Leaders are human
They strive and struggle
They want to create something better
They want to serve
We are all leaders in some way
Being a leader isn’t about power, or money or being in politics or any number of the things people commonly imagine.
It’s just that most of us aren’t aware of it consciously. We aren’t doing it consciously.
Every person you meet, connect with, in person or on social media, can’t help but be impacted and affected by you. Your actions, words and energy. This is how leaders emerge.
We are a social species. When we’re connected to each other we breathe together. Our heartbeats even start to synchronise. Our brain wave patterns harmonise.
This means you are being affected by everyone you’re around. And YOU are affecting everyone around you.
Your place of choice
You can either stay at the EFFECT of those around you.
You can decide THEY are making YOU feel what they are feeling.
Or … You could do something powerful and purposeful. You could decide YOU are going to make a conscious choice about how you would like to make others feel in that moment.
Your thoughts, and words and actions will inspire others. So choose them wisely. In times of chaos and uncertainty, people will look to those who are steadfast, certain and confident.
How leaders emerge
You don’t need followers. You just need to be the person YOU are seeking. And to do that, you need to know what you’re seeking and what you feel you’re missing.
Often our emotions can be in the way of knowing what we are seeking and what we are missing. We can be stuck in a pattern of sticking to a job we don’t like and living from payday to payday, putting up with relationships which don’t serve us, having our days filled with habits we wish we could ditch and doing anything to avoid the white-knuckled rollercoaster of emotions we experienced years ago which keep showing up and getting in the way right now.
Believe me, I was there too, after being kept as a ‘virtual’ house prisoner for 5 years by a paedophile. My ‘physical’ escape didn’t represent a ‘mental’ and emotional’ escape and I was diagnosed with a number of conditions including PTSD, agoraphobia and social anxiety disorder and told I would learn to live with them, but never recover.
I’ve now been helping survivors of emotional trauma reset their lives for nearly 2 decades.
My own experience of trauma triggered a process of researching the very best in transformational therapeutics – from wild and wacky esoteric to academic theories (oh, the places you’ll end up whe you want that damn pain to end!).
What I created is a powerful healing technology called Conscious Emotional Transformation (CET) uniting science and spirituality like never before, using my pHD mathematical modelling skills. The methodology bring to life my dream of going beyond rigid systems that obscure the complexity of emotional suffering, to instead, forging our own paths and discovering what it means to be human, living with joy.
My mission is to revolutionise how people experience their emotions by elevating consciousness.
At CETfreedom our clients are curious beings that society would label as ‘out of the box’ thinkers. They’re driven by a yearning for knowledge and an insatiable urge to probe at the depths of human consciousness to gain that in-depth wisdom that shapes so much of our relationships, careers and life purpose. Think of CETfreedom as the vehicle to get you there! We’re in the business of Emotional Transformation at a level so deep, it brings about permanent change and releases you from the damn pain that is ruling so much of your life.
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To your leadership
Dr Lisa Turner