Survival Mode vs. Thriving Mode

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Dr Lisa Turner

World renowned visionary, author, high-performance mindset trainer for coaches to elevate skills, empower clients to achieve their maximum potential

Let’s talk about your life in terms of an operating system.

There are two basic modes you can run on:

  1. Survival Mode (BI-OS 1.0): This is the default setting. It’s an operating system designed for one thing: getting through the day without dying. Its core programming is about threat detection, resource conservation, and short-term crisis management.
  1. Thriving Mode (BI-OS 2.0): This is the upgrade. It’s an operating system designed for creation, connection, and expansion. Its core programming is about optimizing energy, accessing creativity, and building a meaningful life.

For most high-performing women, you are a master of Thriving Mode in your career. You are strategic, visionary, and focused on growth.

But when it comes to your body, your health, and your relationship with food, you are stuck running Survival Mode.

What Survival Mode Looks Like

When your body’s operating system is in Survival Mode, it looks like this:

  • Energy Conservation: Your metabolism slows down. Your body holds onto weight, especially around the middle, because it thinks it’s in a famine and needs to store resources. You feel sluggish and tired all the time.
  • Threat-Based Cravings: You crave quick, dense energy—sugar, carbs, fat. Your brain is screaming for fuel to handle the perceived crisis.
  • Narrowed Focus: Your mental bandwidth is consumed by the immediate “threat.” You can’t think long-term. You can’t access your creativity. All you can think about is food and your body.
  • Chronic Inflammation: The constant stress of being in survival mode creates a state of low-grade, chronic inflammation, which is the root of countless health issues and that lovely “puffy” feeling.

Does any of this sound familiar?

You are trying to build a thriving life on an operating system designed for survival. It’s like trying to run a creative design studio on a computer built for a bomb shelter. It just doesn’t work.

The Upgrade to Thriving Mode

The switch from Survival Mode to Thriving Mode is not about willpower. It’s not about a new diet. It’s about sending your nervous system a powerful, undeniable message:

“You are safe.”

That’s it. That’s the master key.

When your nervous system receives the signal of safety, it can finally switch off the survival program and reboot into Thriving Mode. And when it does, everything changes:

  • Energy Optimization: Your metabolism comes back online. Your body feels safe enough to burn fuel efficiently. You have sustained, clean energy all day.
  • Wisdom-Based Cravings: You start to crave what your body actually needs for nourishment, not just what will get it through the next five minutes.
  • Expanded Focus: With the immediate “threat” gone, your mental bandwidth is liberated. Your focus expands. You can think clearly, creatively, and strategically again.
  • Reduced Inflammation: As the stress response powers down, so does the inflammation. You feel lighter, clearer, and more at home in your own skin.

This is not a fantasy. This is a biological upgrade. It’s a shift from an outdated, fear-based operating system to one that is designed for the expansive, impactful life you are here to live.

So, take a look at your life. Your energy levels. The noise in your head. The way you feel in your body.

Which operating system are you running?


If you’re tired of living in Survival Mode and you’re ready to install the upgrade, this is the work. This is the only thing that creates lasting change. If you’re curious about the process of making this shift, you can find more information at www.cetfreedom.com. Or just send me a message. Let’s talk about what it would take to get you thriving.

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